So, you are faced with a shock situation - the family was built a long time ago or more recently it is collapsing at the speed of a house of cards, another woman has appeared on the horizon - a mistress. Here he is already packing his bags, saying goodbye forever. But will the fate of the former outside the home be really happy, how now to be with nothing?
Spending nights thinking “how does he live there”, “why is it so” sometimes brings the fair sex to a nervous breakdown or even worse. In order not to aggravate, let's first make a "correct diagnosis" on what basis the incident happened, what preceded it.
The reason is always closer than we think - it is in ourselves. Examples of female guilt:
- resentment, discontent, reproaches - everything has been accumulating for years and finally spilled out. Remember, because the husband tried to keep silent and did not provoke scandals;
- unkempt appearance, a complete lack of makeup, a worn robe - this has become daily and does not change under any pretext. They stopped thinking about him as a man, and he, of course, about you as a woman who needs to be conquered;
- the desire for financial independence and a career came to the fore, and the faithful will live on semi-finished products, without sex, and, in general, children are superfluous.
If at least one of the three reasons was present in life, then the question “why did you choose a mistress” is no longer as incomprehensible as it seemed before. But these are only the most common factors, and there are still a great many of them.
The spouse goes to his mistress, not only through your fault, there are other examples of the cause of betrayal:
- thirst for novelty - he is a hunter and wants to conquer and feel the excitement;
- desire for freedom - he feels burdened by marriage;
- inferiority complex - sexual claims will be corrected, but no longer with you;
- boredom - complete predictability, guardianship, love from the wife will also oppress, because we are a little masochists, and we want different things;
- incentive - if he does not see his wife as reasons for his further development, he will look for a new one;
- feeling of sharpness of new sensations.
Moreover, the husband did not immediately go to his mistress , and long months or even years, waiting for the moment or the final surrender of the woman.
How to soften the blow
If the husband went to his mistress, then try to adequately endure the insult, as much as possible to alleviate the consequences of a divorce, if it takes place. Admit to yourself whether you want to return your spouse or there is at least a tiny desire to start living anew, do not turn your life into despondency, the same type of existence. Look at everything, on the other hand, you are young and full of energy to go further, to get more than you had.
Remember the following:
- time is the best doctor, it the best psychologist or psychoanalyst. Accept what is, live on, building new life;
- the worst that could happen has already happened, so rejoice - it won't get any worse. The ex showed you who he really is, and thereby eliminated doubts;
- open up to everything new (opportunities and desires) that were previously banned or you did not have enough time;
- Expand your social circle with new friends. Meet, flirt and enjoy the attention of the opposite sex . The ex-husband married his mistress, and now she will complain about a cold dinner and an unironed shirt. And this misfortune will return like a boomerang.
Ask yourself the question: how much is lost with his departure from the family? Realize yourself in the most unexpected area and rise above all showdowns and explanations.
If you feel that you can not continue to live in peace, without knowing the reason for leaving. You constantly think about how fate developed immediately after the divorce, let's find out.
How to return a husband to the family
"You can't take it back." A comma, you must put it yourself. If you put it right after the first “return” - proceed! In war, as in war, all means are good, since the mistress has taken her husband away from the family nest, do the same. Men after a divorce are loving, free creatures, which will not be difficult to manage using cunning. Take specific actions when your husband returns to the family:
- always be beautifully dressed, do not be lazy to apply makeup;
- put things in order in the house and in thoughts;
- do things that no one expects from you;
- find in yourself a “zest” that attracts attention;
- act casually and kindly when you accidentally (on purpose) meet with the former;
- do not show discontent, bad mood;
- build a warm relationship with the former mother-in-law;
- try to temporarily become a friend for your ex-spouse, tell him about your life, find out how he is doing, try to give him advice if he asks;
- fulfill requests, smiling, showing energy and cheerfulness;
- occasionally hint at female weakness, the need for support.
It turns out that it is possible to silently reconcile when a spouse goes to his mistress only in those cases when they themselves provoked it, or he is really no longer needed. But if a man has found happiness with you, and a mistress has destroyed her life, suddenly bursting into it, then it’s worth fighting for yourself. It is quite possible to win the second round.
Behave with dignity, without showing your helplessness. Be confident, look after your appearance, go in for fitness to keep yourself in shape. Soon, if it was a really short-term affair, the missus will rush at full speed, begging to forgive him, but here there are already trump cards in your hands and it’s up to you to decide: “execute” or “pardon”.
What will happen to my husband - Real stories
Of course, it is good to consider the dissolution of a marriage by a woman. A mistress is a homemaker, a wife is a victim, and then who is the husband? How do men feel after a divorce? How fate develops further when the ex-husband married his mistress.
Tips on how to keep him, not to become depressed if a breakup has occurred, are taken into account and will be used. And does he find happiness by divorcing his wife? AT love triangle wife-husband-lover everything is not as simple as it seems at first sight. Let's analyze whether men suffer after leaving the family, studying real stories.
A., aged 40: “For some time, my wife and I had a very difficult period of quarrels, resentment and nerves. At that moment, I met N. It seemed to me that I was in love, it almost came to intimacy, but N. declared that she wanted a family and children with me. And I kind of woke up after these words. Returned to his wife. N. pursued and mischievous for a long time, making scandals, throwing tantrums. With this, she killed the last feelings for her. The wife was ready for a divorce, barely dissuaded, like she forgave. This example is the simplest and most common, which shows that the fate of a man played a little with him, and again returned everything to normal, and the relationship only became stronger.
There is another case when serious feelings are to blame. The consequences of divorce do not bring grief, but a new better life for a man. Having to mistress strong feelings, a new happy family is being created. Ex-wife also has the right to happiness, it is possible that with a divorce it will come faster than expected.
Or the following situation: D.33 years old: “My wife did not interfere with me to arrange my personal life with another. Our marriage is unsuccessful, but I love the child madly. There were periods of quarrels, trips, and then a period of calm, when they lived together simply out of loneliness, for the sake of a child. This went on for some time, until I fell in love with one of my wife's acquaintances. The wife not only did not mind, but also helped to establish a new life. Moved to his mistress and live happily ever after. Divorce is not a reason to quarrel. Although this story is a very big exception to the boomerang law, which always returns debts.
There is another amusing situation in the life of a man who does not make any decision at all.
A.38 years old: “I love one, and I have been married to my wife for 20 years, she is a person close in spirit to me, we have children, many friends and relatives. My wife knows about my relationship, they know each other and hate each other. I am ready to leave everything, only before that I want to marry my wife so that she does not take offense at me. We've been living like this for 4 years now. I don't want to destroy what I've been building for so long, plus children, general work with his wife in the same team. I do not want gossip from mutual friends, relatives or acquaintances. One hope is that the situation will resolve itself. The wife will find someone, kick her out, or offer another job.”
Reading these lines, do you still want to hold on to your husband with all your might and find out how he lives without you?
Here, the spouse is afraid to make a choice, he is afraid of change, lets everything take its course, bringing pain, suffering to himself and to both women. Is this what you want in life? You want to be mistaken for a rag husband who waits for manna to fall from the sky and help him determine his fate. I think not, especially since such a vision is close to absurdity.
What to do in the end
A man divorces or leaves, keeping in mind the idea of the possibility of returning even after eleven years, starting from scratch. And the woman usually leaves forever. If you are connected by common children, then you will have to somehow communicate with ex-husband. But if he breaks up with his mistress, he will delete her from life forever.
In both cases, the conclusion is the same: think about how your life will go when the children grow up, it is quite possible that they will live separately from you. In what case will there be a big loss - if you give up happiness for the sake of family duty, or if you decide to let go and live on with your life? happy life. Better yet, ask your children if they want such a life: an eternally disheveled, nervous mom and a walking dad. Your choice will depend on the answer: continue to follow the fate of the former with attempts to return, or build a new life.
The husband went to his mistress, and how his fate turned out to be few options. If the house that was shared always beckoned with comfort, smelled like a delicious dinner, and you took care of yourself - do not worry about leaving. For he, most likely, will return even from a young or pregnant girlfriend - because it is quiet, calm and stable here. The wife will definitely return her husband simply by releasing without scandal, tantrums and tears.
Hello! I am 24 years old. I have a child of 2 years old. I always treated betrayal extremely negatively, I thought, "If you have changed, then why live together, get divorced and walk on health", I never thought that I would encounter this. My husband and I have been together for 6 years. he is my first man. Relations in the family are normal, but in sex everything is bad. We make love once a week, not more often ... I am outwardly pretty, slim, my husband is also not bad, but I have no physical attraction, the worst thing is that I don’t want to change anything. Half a year ago I met a man, he is 35 years old, he is wealthy, well-groomed, plump, but I like it)). He began to show signs of attention to me, found my phone number. began to write SMS, I refused him and asked him not to disturb. But he continued to write and I agreed to drink coffee. We talked and after that we began to correspond. He wrote me a bunch of sms and good morning and good night, he composed poems himself, constantly asked how I, as a child, what I was doing, how my mood was ... he came under the windows and just to see at least for 5 minutes. He is very attentive, knows how to care, with him I felt like a woman, desirable, beautiful, and not just a mother. He said that he loved me and my child, that he had never had this with anyone. (He was married, has a daughter with whom he constantly communicates , the wife went to another). We slept, and I och. I liked it, but I was terribly tormented by remorse, because my husband good man a good father. With a new man, we began to make plans for the future, he wanted me to move in with him. With him, I received the attention and care that I did not receive from my husband. He is wealthy and I would not think much for what money to buy something for a child, to teach him, to go on vacation ... and in general how to travel (by public transport or if I had my own car). But we quarreled with him, I doubted whether this was right, because I would change the life of my child and husband, and how my husband would be without us, because he would not see how the child falls asleep at night, and what would my parents say (((, I was scared. After this quarrel, our relationship with the man changed, his jealousy for my husband, my feelings and insecurity ... and everything became so difficult ... he began to write less, we rarely see each other (says that there is a very strong blockage on work), and the time when we see each other, I feel sorry for the fact that he pays little attention to me, and he is frightened by the fact that I am offended as he says "every little thing and I make an elephant out of a molehill." I'm not sure about the seriousness of his intentions, because he sees once sometimes 2 times a week and just have sex (((he says that he loves me, but I’m not sure that I’ll leave my husband, but how can I understand what to do if he stopped trying, if he changed ... I’m so confused, I’m madly drawn to him, but I don’t want to be used. Help me figure out what to do.
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| yUHCHUFCHP VMBZPDBTOPUFY b RPNPESH RP IPSKUFCHH LBL PUOPCHBOYE DMS VTBLB - LBFBUFTPZHB DMS VTBLB. PULPTVIFEMSHOPE DMS PVPYI RPMPTSEOYE. ynip. b EUMY CHSH MAVIFE EZP, LBL VTBFB, FEN VPMEE OE UFPYF MZBFSh. fBN, ZDE EUFSH MPTSSH, FTHDOP RTEDPMPTSYFSH OBMYYUYE VTBFULPK MAVCHY, YMY IPFS VSHCH HCHBTSEOYS. chshch RPMBZBEFE, UFP RTPDPMTSBS MZBFSH NHTSH, chshch OE MPNBEFE ENH TSYOSH? rTBCHDB DBUF ENH ChP-NPTSOPUFSH UCHPPVPDOP RTYOYNBFSH TEYOYS ubnpnkh, BOE TsDBFSH, LPZDB chshch LFP UDEMBEFE b OEZP. rHUFSH ffp VKhDEF VPMSHOP, OP ffp ezp TSJOSH. CHURPNOYFE, ULPMSHLP ENH MEF, RPKNYFE, YUFP ON DBCHOP OE TEVIOPL, Y DBKFE CHPNPTSOPUFSH - IPFS VShch UEKYUBU! - RTPSCHYFSH UEVS NHTSYUYOPK. — Paxomovna |
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| УРБУЙВП ЧУЕН ЪБ ПФЧЕФЩ,ЧУЕ ФБЛЙ С ТЕЫЙМБ ВПМШЫЕ ОЕ ПВНБОЩЧБФШ НХЦБ,ЧУЕ ТБУУЛБЪБФШ ЕНХ!ИПЮХ МАВЙФШ Й ВЩФШ МАВЙНПК,Б ОЕ ФЕТРЕФШ ЮШЕ ФП РТЙУХФУФЧЙЕ!НПЦЕФ Й ПВПЦЗХУШ,ОП ЕУМЙ ОЕ РПРТПВХА ВХДХ ЦБМЕФШ ЧУА ЦЙЪОШ!! — OE OBLPNMAUSH |
| Paxomovna 05 BRTEMS 2012 ZPDB | 15 -25 |
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| UPZMBOOB! +++ — DILYK YIRPCHOIL |
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| chBUYMYK nBLUINPCH 04 BRTEMS 2012 ZPDB |
fPTPRYFSHUS, LPOEYUOP, OE UFPYF. oP CHEDSH RPMZPDB - LFP HCE UTPL? OH, RPNKHYUBKFEUSH EEI U RPMZPDYLB, RTPDKHNBKFE CHBTYBOFSHCH ... OP CHEDSH TEYBFSH CHUЈ TBCHOP RTYIDEFUS. lPOEYUOP, TBCHPD U NHTSEN RTYOEUJF NOPZP RTPVMEN: ENH CHRPMOE NBFETYIBMSHOSHCHI, CHBN - DHYECHOSCHI, OP OE NEOEE FSTSLII. oP LBLBS X CHBU BMSHFETOBFYCHB? FETREFSH OEMAVINPZP YuEMPCHELB TSDPN U UPVPK, URBFSH U OIN (B LHDB DEOEYSHUS?!), DEMBFSH OEUYUBUFOSHCHNY Y UEVS, Y MAVPCHOYLB, Y DBTSE NHTSB (ON TSE OE DHTBL, RPKNIF, YUFP L YuENKh) ... TSYFOY OE ENHDE, OH CHBN.
b CH UMHYUBE TBCHPDB RPUFTBDBEF FPMSHLP NHC. DEFI PFGB OE MYYBFUUS, CHSHCH TS OE UPVYTBEFEUSH RTERSFUFCHPCHBFSH NHTSH CHUFTEYUBFSHUS U OIN. b EUMY PO "ZPTDShKK", Y PFLBCEFUS PVEBFSHUS U ONYY, ABOUT LPK PO YN OHTSEO, FBLPK RBRBYB?
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| UTPL - DMS UEZP?? rPMZPDB MTsY - FFP UTPL!!! oP FP OE UTPL, YuFPV TBTKHYYFSH FP, YuFP UPDBCHBMPUSH 15 MEF, YMY VPMSHIE, Y UPDBFSH OPCHPE, RTPUOPE, BL FBLPK UTPL - OETEBMSHOP. YULMAYUEOYS VSCCHBAF, OP SOY, LBL Y'CHEUFOP... — Paxomovna | |
| y CHPRTPUB UMEDHEF, UFP NHTs HCE "PVP CHUYN DPZBDSHCHCHBEFUUS..." FP, UFP PO RPDLBVMHYUOIL, EEI OE POBUBEF, UFP PO BMShZhPOU. y U VPMSHYN FTKHDPN NPZH RTEDUFBCHYFSH UEVE UIFKHBGYA, UFPV RTY TBCHPDE RPUFTDBM MYYSH PYO YUEMPCHEL. tbchpd - ffp chuezdb lbfbuftpzhb, yjvecbfsh rpumedufchik oe hdbufus oylpnh. CHUFTEYU U RBPK OE UNPZKhF OBNEOYFSH TSYOYOY U RBPK. — Paxomovna |
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| CHUЈ RPOINBA. OE NPZH RPOSFSH, LFP NPTSEF ЪBUFBCHYFSH (UYMPK???) URBFSH U OEMAVYNSCHN. rPMZPDB MTsY - FFP UTPL. y UFP, NOE FERETSH OBDP RTEMPTSYFSH RTPDMYFSH FFPF UTPL - DP LBLYI RPT? RPLB UNETFSH OE TBMHYUYF YI? OE MPTSSHA MY VKHDEF FBLBS "UENEKOBS" TSJOSH? rPCHETShFE, CHFPTPK VTBL NPTSEF VSHCHFSH - Y VSCCHBEF - UYUBUFMYCHSHCHN. — chBUYMYK nBLUINPCH |
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| "OE NPZH RPOSFSH, LFP NPTSEF ЪBUFBCHYFSH (UYMPK???) URBFSH U OEMAVINSCHN." - UEKYUBU FFP LBL TBI Y RTPYUIPDYF: ((jNEOOP UIMPK, (UIMPK CHPMY ???) TsEOEYOB UBNB UEVS BUFBCHMSEF UFP DEMBFSH. "th UFP, NOE FERETSH OBDP RTEMPTSYFSH RTPDMYFSH FFPF UTPL - DP LBLYI RPT?" - OP CHEDSH YNEOOP FFP CHSH Y RTEDMBZBEFE! "Oh, RPNHYUBKFEUSH EEY W RPMZPDYLB,..." chFPTPK VTBL CHRPMOE NPCEF VSHCHFSH UYUBUFMYCHSHCHN, - Y VSCHCHBEF! oP OE UFPYF ZhKHODBNEOF VKHDHEEZP UYBUFSHS OBNEYCHBFSH ABOUT MTsY. — Paxomovna |
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| tBCHPD Y OPCHBS UENEKOBS TsYOSH - CH YUЈN FHF MPTSSH? b RPMZPDB DMS RPTCHETLY UPVUFCHEOOOSCHI YUKHCHUFCH NPTsOP Y RPFETREFSH VEY VMYYPUFY U NHTSEN. — chBUYMYK nBLUINPCH |
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| TSEOE, UZMBUOB, CH FPK UYFKHBGYY NPTsOP Y RPFETREFSH), OP, RPIPTSE, UFP NHTs OE TBDEMSEF LFPF CHZMSD ABOUT FBLPZP TPDB "RTPCHETLKH YUKHCHUFCH", U YEUFYNEUSYUOSCHN CHPDETSBOYEN.) — Paxomovna |
| OE OBLPNMAUSH 05 BRTEMS 2012 ZPDB |
пЮЕОШ ВМБЗПДБТОБ ЧУЕН ЪБ ФП ЮФП ОЕ ПУФБМЙУШ ТБЧОПДХЫОЩ Л НПЕК ЙУФПТЙЙ,ДМС НЕОС УЕКЮБУ ЧБЦОП МАВПЕ НОЕОЙЕ УП УФПТПОЩ,ОЙ Ч ЛПЕН УМХЮБЕ ОЕ ПВЙЦБАУШ ОБ ТЕЪЛПУФЙ ЬФП ФПЦЕ ЙОПЗДБ ВЩЧБЕФ РПМЕЪОП ЮФПВЩ ЧУФТСИОХФШ!уМПЦОП ЛПОЕЮОП ЙЪМПЦЙФШ ЧУЕ ЪДЕУШ,ОП РПУФБТБАУШ ХФПЮОЙФШ ОЕЛПФПТЩЕ НПНЕОФЩ. .
1.РТЕФЕОЪЙЙ Л НХЦХ Ч РМБОЕ ВЩФБ ЧПЪОЙЛМЙ ОЕ ФПМШЛП УЕКЮБУ,ЬФП ТБЪДТБЦБМП ЧУЕЗДБ,РТПУФП УЕКЮБУ РПСЧЙМПУШ УТБЧОЕОЙЕ,НОЕ ОТБЧЙФУС ЮФП С НПЗХ ДПЧЕТЙФШ ЛПНХ ФП ТЕЫЕОЙЕ ЛБЛПЗП ФП ЧПРТПУБ,Л РТЙНЕТХ Х ДЕФЕК УМПНБМУС ЛПРШАФЕТ,РПМЕФЕМБ НБФЕТЙОУЛБС РМБФБ,Б НОЕ ОЕ ОХЦОП ЧОЙЛБФШ ЛБЛ ЬФП УДЕМБФШ,ЛБЛБС ЙНЕООП РПДПКДЕФ Л НПЕНХ ЛПРШАФЕТХ!фЕН ВПМЕЕ ЗТБЖЙЛ ТБВПФЩ Х НЕОС ОБРТСЦЕООЩК,ВЩЧБЕФ ЮФП Й Ч ЧЩИПДОЩЕ ТБВПФБА Й ЪБ РПМОПЮШ НПЗХ РТЙДФЙ ЧП ЧТЕНС ПФЮЕФПЧ!Й ЙОПЗДБ УМПЦОП ПФРТПУЙФШУС У ТБВПФЩ ЮФПВЩ ТЕЫЙФШ ЛБЛПК ФП ЧПРТПУ,Б УИПДЙФШ Ч NBZBYO, DBTSE ЪB IMEVPN, DMS NHTsB RTPVMENB! PO RTYZPFPCHYF, HVETEF, OBLPTNYF DEFEK, OP Y DPNB OE CHSHKDEF, FPMSHLP CH LTBKOEN UMHYUBE!!!
2.eZP NSZLPFEMPUFSH - LFP
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Nowadays, it is easier for a person to choose, to refuse, than to build what he wants. The consumer society has taught us to take what is ready, to replace a failed copy instantly, without repairing, without being especially careful. Any thing can be replaced with a more updated, improved, modernized version. This applies not only to the material world, but also to spiritual matters, regrettably.
Everyone wants happiness not sometime, in the near or distant future, but here and now. After all, many fashionable teachings are teaching us this now, speaking about healthy egoism, about self-love, about other things that people around do not particularly notice. One has only to look at how many ideals can now be gleaned from films, advertisements, magazines, where it is so beautiful, emasculated, combed and varnished. And when a living person differs from these pictures, he seems worse, not beautiful, not expressive and generally not worth attention.
Then it seems possible to easily and simply change one woman for another. Despite the fact that the man started a family, built relationships, the time came when this was not enough, and new feelings entered his life, deeper, richer. It's time for a change.
Your wife constantly controlled your life, did not allow simple male pleasures like football with beer in the company of friends. Or vice versa, so indifferent to you that it seemed that she was not in your life, in bed. Or so eager to please that it became completely uninteresting to live with a person who does not value himself, who is nothing of himself.
Once I married her not out of love, but by chance, flying, in my youth, not really understanding what kind of person was in front of you. Or there was love, but over time, every dash, every movement became famous, ordinary, not important. There are many possible reasons for a breakup. But during the time of living together, life has been built, traditions and habits have developed in the family. No one will say that leaving now is easy.
This would have continued, but she appeared, beautiful, bright, emotional, in general, different. Life sparkled, acquired meaning, passion, felt alive, renewed. You are drawn to her, but family responsibility holds. With respect for your partner, you don’t want to hurt her by leaving, but in your heart you already have another.
For a while you manage to maintain the status quo, both women are unaware of each other's existence. However, the situation has changed - now you need to make a choice. Either one of them delivered an ultimatum, or the spouse found out about the rival, put before the fact - something needs to be decided. Now the most difficult thing was to make a decision, to take responsibility. Otherwise, there will be a constant movement - he left his wife for his mistress, then vice versa - difficult for all participants in this game.
Therefore, never being a scoundrel, he divorced, after a divorce from his wife, he went to his mistress from all his past, from home. You also call home, out of habit, the place where the former lives, and not the place where you began to live with your mistress.
You feel guilty towards your ex and her self-pity. You hope that she will not arrange a showdown with a new woman, because after a divorce from her, you tried to arrange things calmly and without conflicts. Your new life has begun.
How to live with someone else
But is life with a mistress as simple and beautiful as it seems from afar? After a while, it often turns out that long-distance relationships and living together are two different things. Even if you often stayed with your girlfriend, sometimes you spent holidays together. The one who is accustomed to any of you, morning, not getting enough sleep, or sick, grumbling, understands you much better than this other one.
You have two paths, which depend on why you live with her, what you want from her and the relationship.
- The first is that you enjoy your connection while it lasts, do not count on its long duration. You like to be free from any obligations. Therefore, the time will come, you will leave again. In this case, accept what happens as long as you like it, don't try to put in a lot of effort to maintain the relationship. If both of you are satisfied with such a relationship, they can be quite long.
- Second, you want to be happy with her. planning a long life together. He found in her what was missing in his previous life, he is now serious, resolute.
If your other woman is real happiness for you, the love of your life, you have to build a new family, learn how to live. Learn to understand each other not only on romantic dates, to feel the mood by turning your head. With all the desire to create something new, fear is very strong - what if it doesn’t work out, what if the decision is wrong. You will also have to fight this, making every day right and valuable.
- You need to be patient. You will encounter things that you have not seen before in your girlfriend, you will learn to be tolerant of them. The new woman will have to learn a lot of what is important to you, while the former knew your shortcomings, weaknesses. She does not know your features, your habits as well as it will be necessary for constant support, you will need to forgive her a lot in advance.
- It is necessary to build relationships with her family and friends, with friends, girlfriends. Give her time to communicate with them, accept them.
- To put up with various inconveniences in everyday life, which in that life had already been polished.
- You may need to find common ground in financial matters: go to a restaurant, as they did before, or dine with homemade food, having bought something necessary for the house. And a friend can still expect a fur coat, a trip to the Maldives. We'll have to negotiate.
- Speaking of gifts: very often girlfriends receive gifts that are much more expensive, more substantial than spouses.
- If you find yourself next to your ex, on various issues that arise or in connection with common children, you should be calm, rational. Communicating with children, if you have them, you continue to educate them, love them, spend time with them, listen to their problems, you divorced your wife, not them.
- If your girlfriend has a child, you will replace his father, this should be approached carefully, carefully, without violating his boundaries, remembering that they used to live without you, they were also a family.
- You can't back down if something seems difficult to you. If you remember why you are with her, you will have the strength to solve the difficulties that arise.
It may happen that doubts will haunt you - did I do the right thing by going to my mistress? Can I be happy with her? Nobody is immune from this. In any situation, two parties are involved, your relationship can be happy with an equal contribution from each. But by doing something, you are more likely to get what you want than to wait.
Otherwise, you will have to change women like gloves, expecting that each new one will be better than the previous one, it will fit right away and perfectly.
