2nd moment - work with the family.
You must understand the degree of influence on your life, karma, if you work with it right away, then you probably won’t feel the result right away. It might not be very interesting. You need to feel that some kind of transformation has begun in your life. The less you expect, the brighter the manifestations will be. If you set a goal for yourself and fixate on it, you will work with the family, there will be no such vivid manifestations. The more you lower your brain, the more permutations there will be.
When you start to understand, everything will be better. If I don't understand, I won't do anything. When they told me: "Trust, trust", I say: "Well, of course it's good, But ...". And when I began to understand that consciousness works this way, and when we want something, we can rely only on the tools that are there inside. But we most often want a potentially different life, but we can’t come up with it, there are no tools. Who would have thought about the Internet or a cell phone. And you grew up in the forest and milked the cow all the time. Could this be in your dreams? Hardly. Why? But because we operated only with those moments that we own. That's why.
“So I worked with the family, I found relatives. There have been some changes. And now, how can I work with the family?” Always work with family. Girls, always. Maybe at first it is more intensive to do it, because many generations have not done anything. And you will always do it. Yulia Voznesenskaya "My Posthumous Adventures". Usually it is sold in the church. That's what I'm talking about the genus, it's all there. It's about how the girl got into a coma, in a state of clinical death, and her friend did these rituals for her. And she says that, for example, she ended up in hell, and her friend, doing rituals for her, praying, serving food, due to this, the girl in that world survived. You just read. What do you think I came up with? I just analyzed all the methods that recommend it and found a connection between them and now I give it to one scheme. And I realized only one wonderful thing. For me, this discovery was - really no need to think. Really, you don't have to think. And yet - when a woman is happy, she cannot think. She can't. We work on intuition, on something else. But when in our head, we start thinking about something, the thought ends on the second word. This turns out to be normal.
Rituals. It is better to do everything in the morning. But if you didn't do it in the morning, do it at night. It's not really that scary. The handout has a clear description. What is the theme of ancestors. To understand this topic, please read Globa, everything you find in Globa about ancestors. Find his book "Genoscope". You won't regret at all. I also ordered 100 copies from the publishing house. books "Men, midlife crisis." I brought 16 books with me "Reliable People" For some reason they can't find it for sale. Here are the books you should have at home and know by heart. And don't give it to anyone. I just forgot the authors. I can take a look. They were supposedly in the ozone. I can't tell everything. I do not have time. It makes no sense. Genoscopes. Read at least this mechanism to catch. Then Vetrov's lectures are on the Internet "4 stages of birth. 4 stages of death." And please learn them by heart. There is a book and a video lecture, there are invaluable pieces about relationships, but most of all it tells about the ancestors, their influence, what happens at what stages. The book has the most important idea. Read more "Vedic Book of Death" she's so small. And there it is that one of the debts, the duty of the living is to remember the dead, they cannot do anything themselves. If women do not do it, then no one can do it. If we do not do this for our ancestors, and we live in such a collective farm. Who is alive. This is our duty. You came to take the qualifications and look. Tan, you say I need more money. And I’m sitting in the heavenly office watching, so, the mood is bad, I didn’t work with my ancestors, everything is free. You also don't talk to your relatives. Is there anything else you wanted...
Means Vetrov to this topic. Globa. The Vedic Book of Death, Ancestral Syndrome. good book. For those who don't believe- go to the Hellinger constellations. I send men there now. Don't get involved just saying to understand that we have absolutely no control over our lives. It's a total illusion we have a small corridor as long as we remember our ancestors.
Bert Helinger has books, his student, if you want to understand this topic and make sure that it has such an impact. If you read what I told you, it will be enough for your eyes. This is one of the techniques - constellations, in my opinion, it is useful when you want to make sure that we really repeat generic programs. I don't like it when people get hooked on it. You know, when they find some method and consider that it is unique. And they go to solve any problem in constellations. This does not work. People who begin to get hung up on this - does not work. You went once to the women's training and there is nothing more to do here. There's nothing. Here on communication, communication can be developed indefinitely. You don't have to go to training a lot. I will now do my best to make this information freely available on the Internet. It is more interesting for me to analyze your stories individually, when you already know the meaning, the theory. I'm interested and it's priceless to you.
So. Where do you start - from the fact that you start working with the ancestors, without expecting any results. Your task is to simply read on this topic, study, watch what is happening in your life and be surprised how magical the world is and how it works according to the laws that we, unfortunately, did not use before. Everything was under our noses, but we did not see it. When you start working with the ancestors, most of your emotional states and problems are there. And the keys are like a rat in the basement has died. There is no point in wasting precious time on weathering all this. You start doing all this. And it's simple. What is the point. Take any tradition. There, the principle is that food is prepared, ordinary rice, with a prayer, then this rice is placed by a candle, and offered to the ancestors. You can personally great-grandfather, great-grandmother. It is possible for everything there 4 generation. Maybe 3 generations. I will go to the seminar in the autumn, they will tell. how to work with each genus separately. But as long as we don't know how to do it, I don't know how to do it, you don't know how to do it, but this is not a problem for you at all. You can put a photo of your grandparents, 4 grandparents, there are 8 of them, collect all your aunts. And you can invite all the ancestors at once. Those. it can be done to aborted children. This can be done for your husband's ancestors. This can be done for the ancestors of your child's father. If you do not live together, but the child still depends on you. This is done only for the dead. If there are no photos, then no problem at all. photos make it easier for you to concentrate. Well, just draw by hand if you need to concentrate. No, if you can keep it in your head, then that's enough. There are several important points there. Bow when you say you are inviting your ancestors. Bow when you give thanks when they come. "I appeal to the ancestors of my kind." It's all there in the handout. What if you are an orphan? You don’t know at all then, you don’t really cycle on some details. What matters here is how much food you cook. Because this will then need to be given to the birds. The ideal option is if you take it to the cemetery. The ideal option is where the crows live. Why? Crows are the symbol of Saturn. Saturn represents the ancestors. And in general, the ideal option is when they make some kind of hill, a feeder, pour it out there, usually crows are in charge there. You cook with rice, it is better to undercook, birds do not like overcooked. If you find it difficult to read a prayer, turn on the mantra in the kitchen and let it cook to the sounds of the mantra. Save time. Then, when you have already prepared food, into dishes, dishes on the table, a candle on the table, bow and say: "I invite the ancestors of a kind to eat." You can sit next to them and sit and talk to them. You can sit and say that you dedicate prayers to them. You can generally turn around and leave. Then come, bow and say: "Sorry, I was busy." The very fact that there is food, there is a candle, the candle is a conductor, discharges the ether, why people always pray with a candle, it's like the Internet is on. Wax is important or not. In my opinion, it is better if it is wax. But if not wax, no problem at all. If only the candle was burning. The food that was laid out on dishes and offered to the ancestors should not be eaten by oneself. You can either immediately carry it or let it stand a little and take it out in the evening. Nothing terrible will happen. How many times to do? There are different opinions. There are different schools. When they explained to us, they said that best done on a waning moon. You can always do it on Saturdays. Saturday is your work day. In the morning we got up, prayed, cooked porridge, and we can do nothing further. Each day of the week symbolizes a certain gender. Read, even in the handout you have there - "Astrogenetics". Which generation is responsible for which planet. Which planet is responsible for which day of the week. Your task is to master the instrument in order to somehow cope with the chaos that is in life. And then they need these details. If we immediately pay attention to details now, we will get confused. Tell your husband: "If you let me, they said it can somehow improve the quality of our life and my mood. If you don't mind, I can do it." If he says against it, "until I study this question, I can't tell you anything," you give it all to him. Go to the church if you go to the priest. But for some reason, what I say is that some of the priests, priests are different from priests, they have different qualifications, completely different levels of knowledge, and I have no awe of them, because I was faced with a completely different mentality. Someone called it paganism. I bought a book, they cut it off, it's called "Christian funeral rites" whether. I bought a book in the church, everything is written there one to one. All the same. That's bad, I gave it to someone to reprint it, they took it away, otherwise it would be possible to directly approach and everything is written. I was talking to one priest here, he was very literate, I could not hear enough of him, and he said such a thing. I say, and if a person is not baptized, you can do memorial prayers for him. "You know, in fact, all this is politics, of course, it is possible. If we pray for bees, why not for people." Why is it impossible for Muslims if there is only one God.
"And if mom is against it." You go to church, take Orthodox Christianity, everything is the same there. Do it, but don't cook this porridge just yet. Do you live with your mother?
"Now yes". Well, then you don't have to annoy your mom. If you do what is said in Orthodox Christianity for the ancestors, enough for the eyes.
"Mom bakes pies and distributes." It counts the amount of time and effort you put into it. This is how energy is transferred. If she believes in it, then it will be good.
What to do if someone at home is against it, if you are on the road or something else? They put a candle and say: "I will now read such and such a number of prayers for my ancestors, and the power of these prayers is given to the ancestors." All this is also considered.
Even when you listen to Vetrov, there are many such nuances told, one of which is "If you are starving on the day of the death of a deceased grandfather, then this is also considered a funeral ritual." "4 stages of birth 4 stages of death" they are on the Internet, and it is in the video lecture. Old lectures, but they are very interesting, very useful. Take the Genoscope Globovsky and you will understand that this is really important. You sit down and pray, as if everything is bad for you and will help you faster.
"The date of birth coincided with my daughter." This is definitely a transfer, the daughter will live, the daughter has little freedom of choice, she will live through generic programs, implement them. But if you do all this, she's all right.
About monthly question. Actually it's all lies. In fact, during menstruation we are closer to God. I poked around for a very long time.
"Born in the black moon." And what. This means you carry all the negative karma of the family on the maternal side. This suggests that you want it or not, but you have to want it. You will be forced to do it. We live on a collective farm. Someone must be born. We will create conditions for him so that he wants or does not want to start praying for us. It's clear? If such an indication that you have a generic transference is so powerful, this clan believes that you have enough brains, strength to cope with all this. because it is very bad for them there and they are waiting for someone to help them. you treat this not like what grief.
The level of suffering is the same for everyone. A woman comes to me, cries - the child is sick. The next one comes crying - she cannot find a cook home and everything is bad with the servants and cries "I am a bad housewife, I am not worthy of a husband." I can see it hurts just as much as the first one. You know why we have all the problems now - because there is no war, we are not starving, we do not need to survive, a paradox. We live in prosperity, but other more subtle problems have become aggravated. Maybe this is good. It is better to solve these problems than any others.
Especially for the husband to do. Saturday is a holy day. For him and for his ancestors. Get a few, divided at a time - this is for his relatives, this is for my relatives. If you think that you better quality connections from the church, buy the church. Get up in the morning and immediately take a shower.
How many priests have so many opinions, how many psychologists have so many opinions. I will listen to everyone. If there is no logic in this, I don't understand why it is, I go and figure it out. And then more often it turns out that those postulates are passed off as dogma, in fact, they are diametrically opposed. Not because I'm better. I know for sure that everyone is mistaken, our task is to learn to get to the bottom of the truth. At least it's more interesting.
"About the tables in the graveyard." I said - it is desirable when there is a separate table for birds, not on someone's table, but for birds. Such sites are specially made for the birds to eat. You again make the same mistake that you climb into the details. In fact, this is unimportant. I said important things. I know the girls' mistake. They are here how much you need to spit to blow.
"Will you get confirmation that their fate is somehow changing for the better." Everyone is different. Do we always get a notice - probably always. Do we always understand them - not always. There were cases when the girls said that they dreamed that so and so, relatives came ... Do it out of a sense of duty without expectation of results. Because you just have to do it. Even if you don’t believe it, no matter how strange the recommendation is, you just do it. I do not have the qualifications to explain this, even if I do, I will not convey it to you. Just do it. The one who did and received spiritual relief, understood what to do is worth it. But if you look at the history of all confessions and study, who knits, who sings, who sews, who whistles, I study ancient religions, ancient knowledge, as far as I can remember, I have been doing this so much and spent all the money on it. At 13, I was earning as much as my parents. I bought all the books. When I read the Tibetan book of the dead, my mother cried. If I were her, I would cry too. I said "we will all die soon" and could not understand why then live. I thought this needed to be sorted out. What to worry. if we die anyway.
Let's do that. There is a gender theme. If we finish our training on this, it has already taken place. You will already get this result more than from reading many books. We need to remember 2 things - our brain is very limited in order for us to understand the chances that we have. And as soon as we develop positive thinking, and as soon as we understand - if we trust in life and we will, if we shut our minds and stop gooning that we know what we want, the opportunities that will come will be much more interesting than we could imagine. The gates of these chances open when we start working with the ancestors. Because those are the rules of the game. The one who remembers that in this life everything and everyone is interconnected in space and time, he can win the game. We are now talking about the relationship in time. You understand that you live and live, and you understand that you are living the fate of your great-grandmother. With a materialistic worldview, this does not fit into the head. You need to understand that there is a game, that for us this is new and annoying information. But if, just like a firefighter, you start doing this, you will definitely win. It may not fit in your head, you are waiting for some signs. Do not wait. They will, most likely yes. This is different for everyone. Just don't wait for them. As you start to wait, instead of living and enjoying life, you will be in such tension. You don't have to do this. I have had many such moments after which there is not a single chance to be unsure that it does not work. Especially when I listen to you, for me it's generally a holiday. Every time I get some information and I understand that everything definitely works. It is definitely the way it is. Yes, ours are not fools, they believed in it for so many thousands of years. And then again - and everything is not so. And yet - I once .. I write out and collect material. I think, what if it’s all wrong, or so, or not, I had some kind of movie on my computer, I turn it on, and I already sat down - “when the ancestors want to remind us of themselves, they send us trials". I sat down, no questions. All. we are done with the ancestors. Please hear me.
Here are 3 things to remember - learn to trust life, positive thinking, work with kind. And if you add point 4, you will rustle like rustlings, clean everything, wash it, throw out the dirty, unnecessary, and put everything in order, and live in this for 2 months, doing nothing else, during this time there is a lot that will change. 90 percent of what you came here for will be resolved. Well, to speed up the process, we will disassemble everything else.
PRACTICES OF THE DAY:
– work with sounds, prayers, mantras.
- communication with the elements;
- gaining Egregor's protection;
- baking bread;
- unraveling the threads so that help comes in untying karmic knots;
– the beginning of the herbal treatment cycle;
– work with family
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1) The practice of dissolving karmic knots
Light three wax candles.
Sit in front of them and turn on the music with the sounds of bells and prayers. If you are in the Eastern tradition, you can turn on the mantras and the sounds of Tibetan bowls. Then pick up the tangled threads and, unraveling them, say:
“As I am the daughter of God (name), I unravel these knots and threads, so let it unravel karmic knot between me and (indicate the name with whom you want to unleash the situation) for the good of us and people and all living beings.
When you loosen the threads, burn them. Give the ashes to the water.
2) Connection with the power of the family
We get up, feet shoulder-width apart, hands down.
We fold our hands down behind our backs, like wings, connecting them with brushes, palms back. For women, the left back of the hand should cover the right palm, for men - vice versa. Exhale completely through your nose.
We tilt our head to the left shoulder (inhale), we take energy from the past, we tilt our head to the right shoulder (exhale) - we connect it with the energy of the future. We tilt our head to the right shoulder (inhale) - we take energy from the future, we tilt our head to the left shoulder (exit) - we connect it with the energy of the past.
Tilt your head back and raise your eyes to the sky (inhale).
We lower our head forward and look down at the Earth (exhale).
Now we make nine circular movements of the head along the course of the Sun (clockwise), absorbing the power of the Family. Breathing is voluntary.
And we perform nine circular movements of the head against the course of the Sun (counterclockwise), transferring the power of the Family further. Breathing is arbitrary.
And we return to the starting position.
We repeat the practice in 4 sets.
Practice connects us with the strength, energy and potential of our entire Family, connects us with all our ancestors and descendants.
3) Chanting sounds and mantras
Sound exercises should be performed in a moderate rhythm and little by little. Each person can sing as he likes: intermittently or on one note. Everyone finds their own tone and frequency. You should try to sing all sounds on an emotional upsurge and try to pull them long enough.
Long and drawn-out singing of the “I” sound stimulates the brain, eyes, and nose. They can treat runny noses, sinusitis and inflammation of the eyes. It stimulates the pituitary gland, thyroid gland and all elements of the skull. When singing the sound "I" all these organs and the skull vibrate. When a person sings this sound long enough, he begins to feel a joyful excitement. This is a good remedy for bad mood.
When pronouncing "E", the throat, parathyroid gland, trachea are stimulated. You should try to sing the sound "E" at higher tones.
The sound "O" is a general harmonizing sound.
The sound "A" stimulates the upper part of the lungs. In all lung diseases it is useful to pronounce it. A long “A” cleanses a person’s aura, relieves emotional stress and gives almost the same result as repentance. You need to pronounce it, as if rocking a child.
You can also read or sing mantras:
AUM is the mantra through which the universe was manifested.
Shrim is the mantra of the goddess Sri Lakshmi. Wealth and material wealth
Aim is the mantra of Goddess Saraswati. Goddesses of learning and the arts
Adya Shakti Svaha - the mantra of the original Shakti
To harmonize the chakras, chant the mantras for the chakras:
1. Muladhara (crotch) - LAM - note "Do"
2. Svadhisthana (place of our uterus) - VAM - note "Re"
3. Manipura (just above the navel) - RAM - note "Mi"
4. Anahata (the center of the chest where the heart is) - YM - note "Fa"
5. Vishuddha (base of the throat) - AM - note "Salt"
6. Ajna (the center of the forehead where the "third" eye) - AUM - note "La"
7. Sahasrara (crown) - OM - note "Si"
4) Pitra - shradda(preparation of consecrated food for ancestors). Author Natalia Shafranova.
- Get out in the kitchen. Take a shower. Light and put a candle on the table, preferably wax. Cooking food with a prayer that is more understandable and close to you (“Our Father”, prayers or mantras for consecrating food, you can Ganesha and Soma). It is necessary to read a prayer all the time while preparing food. It is better to cook rice porridge. DO NOT TASTE THE FOOD. If it is difficult to focus on prayer all the time, thoughts go the other way, you can turn on spiritual music or chants of saints.
- When the food is ready, put it on a clean dish and put it on the table in front of the candle. Say "I'm inviting the ancestors of my kind to come and eat." Make a bow (at least mentally) then say "I thank you for life".
- turn to the ancestors for help, support, ask for advice, in general, you can talk to them. Listen to your feelings.
- all the time while the food is on the table near the burning candle (25-30 minutes) you can read prayers or mantras.
- in extreme cases, if there is no time, you can do your own thing.
- After about 30 minutes, you need to thank the ancestors for coming and bow.
- You can do the same for your spouse's ancestors. If you have dead people that you yearn for, you can perform this ritual by inviting a person by name. It is advisable to put a photograph of the deceased person near the candle.
- For aborted babies. It is necessary to say that you invite your unborn children. Talk to them. Read prayers.
- For unborn siblings, if you know your mother had an abortion or are not sure.
- After the ritual, give food to animals on the street, preferably birds.
- It is advisable to do this every Saturday, on the birthdays of your ancestors and the days of death.
PRAYERS FOR CLEANSING THE FAMILY TREE UP TO 12 KNEE
We talk so much about psychology. But let's take a deeper look and look at ancestor rituals and special periods. After all earlier people understood how important it was, and consciously set aside days just for this.
The scriptures say that a person is born and immediately becomes indebted. They fall on him karmic debts which he will have to give during his life. One of them is a duty to the ancestors. Ignoring this duty leads to the failure to fulfill one's entire mission, the inability to find oneself and, as a result, causes suffering in various areas of life.
“The society in which we live gives us worldly education, culture, traditions and patronage, and therefore we are indebted to it. And, of course, this duty is not limited to the present moment: we owe it to all previous generations of ancestors who have preserved morality and customs so that we, their descendants, can live peacefully. And the word “pitrinam”, “ancestors”, indicates our debt to the generations of the past.”
Srimad Bhagavatam 11.5.41 commentary.
From the point of view of genetics, all our ancestors are stored in us, in our DNA, and you can’t throw them out of there, even if you really want to. From the point of view of karma, we come exactly to the kind that meets our tasks in order to work off our debts of past incarnations and the debts of our ancestors. From the point of view of family constellations and systems therapy, we inherit the ancestral scripts of our ancestors, and it is very, very difficult to break out of them.
In general, no matter which side you look at, the topic of ancestors is relevant and important.
In all traditions and cultures, there were special days to commemorate the departed and special practices for this. For example, in Bali there is a Galungan holiday, when it is believed that everyone gathers in the house - including the departed. And people rejoice at the opportunity to be with them, hold special ceremonies, offer them food. We have parental days, other peoples have days of remembrance.
In Rus', traditionally, ancestors were commemorated on Shrovetide week and pancakes were baked. Do you know where the proverb “The first pancake is always lumpy” came from? This is not about the fact that the pancake did not come out, but that this pancake should be given to the ancestors.
Vedic sources also say that descendants can help the souls of their departed ancestors, freeing them from suffering and lightening their burden. And so in a special period, which happens only once a year and is calculated according to lunar calendar and is called “Pitri-Paksha”, until now throughout every house, every family pays special attention to all those who came before us and who helped us to be born into the world. Those whose pieces have gathered in our DNA, those thanks to which we are where we are now, and such as we are now.
In the Vedic tradition, the day of remembrance of the ancestors, in addition to some specific days of the calendar, is considered Saturday. Today is Saturday (while researching - Sunday has come). Not the point, for some reason today I wanted to remember this.
Before turning to this topic, I would like to say that our family, even those who have left this world, at least up to the 7th generation, stand behind us and support us. Well, at least that's how it should be...
Not in vain in old days our ancestors kept the memory of their kind. After all, not only aristocrats and royal families had the concept of a family tree. If you recall, then in old Russia, even among ordinary peasants, the surname of the clan was often transmitted from the progenitor by his name. Therefore, we have so many Ivanovs (Ivan), Sidorovs (Sidor), Prokhorovs, Matveevs, Ilyins ... Or it was a surname associated with the occupation of their ancestors - the Kuznetsovs, Kuznetsovs, Sapozhnikovs, Portnovs. And people remembered their family, stories about their ancestors were passed down from father to son, from son to son… It was hardly just a whim. People had this knowledge that the genus is its protection.
Of course, things have changed now. No wonder there is a proverb: "Ivan, who does not remember kinship". When the foundations of our state were collapsing, it was beneficial for the Bolsheviks that a person forgot his clan, family, and fought only for an idea. And in principle, they succeeded in many ways. How many people now remember at least the name of his great-grandfathers? And we need to remember, if only because without them there would be no us.
There is such a thing as tribal karma. And for us now it is rather negative karma, but not because the family is cursed or someone in the family has sinned. How can our ancestors help us if we do not remember them? If we don't pray for their souls, if they made mistakes? Don't give thanks for your life? Many now simply don’t even have time - we are constantly participating in the race for survival - how to become more successful, how not to be late here, how to earn even more, how not to lose. And in principle, we have already lost a lot. And, perhaps, the help of our kind will be more effective for solving any of our problems than relying only on ourselves "mighty" ...
Of course, for many now it is almost impossible to restore the lost family ties. But it is believed that if you turn to an ancestor, even without knowing his name, his soul still understands that it is about her. And it does not matter that perhaps this soul lives in another incarnation. We are all connected by thin invisible threads. Like God, he is both one and many at the same time.
Sometimes the question is asked: how can one remove the contradiction between the doctrine of reincarnation and the doctrine of the need to honor ancestors? Indeed, at first glance, it seems that if the soul of a person has incarnated in a new body, then honoring him as an ancestor does not make sense (how can he accept honor if he is already in another body?). Different spiritual people give different answers to this question.
First, the soul does not necessarily reincarnate immediately after death. It may take quite a long time before the soul accepts a new body.
They also point to the existence of the concepts of "collective memory", "celestial twin", "parallel self", which remains in the energy field when the soul reincarnates. Sometimes this is interpreted in such a way that it is not a literal entity. It is our actions in our past lives that live like shadows of the past or as our memories and the memories of other people.
Remember and honor your family and over time you will feel inexplicable support, strength, confidence, wisdom that came from nowhere, answers to questions that pop up from nowhere, as if you just knew about it before. Try it, don't skimp on love!!!
Words in words, but how to do it if we are untrained? I tried to find information from different sources. Everyone subconsciously chooses for himself what suits his soul. Any tradition has the right to be. In any case, only those who need this information will read this article. I myself, quite recently, well, just out of the blue, the question of my kind arose. It literally grew out of the blue.
When I started to be interested in this, I thought, well, what can I find? Who in our time thinks especially about the ancestors? There were and were. It turns out I was wrong, it has always been an important component in all cultures. Here are just a few examples, and there are also China, Japan, Egypt, etc.
- Slavic Vedas.
On the Days of Remembrance of the Ancestors and Parental Days, which you can find in the Calendar (other Russian), you can commemorate the Ancestors.
To do this, place bloodless (non-animal) food on the Altar at home - trebs and gifts - pancakes, pancakes, cookies, fruits, nuts, sweets, honey, jam, etc. It’s very good if you yourself prepared the trebs with your own hands.
For example, baking pancakes - the first pancake - to God on the altar, and the second to the Ancestors. The rest - for the elderly and children, then for themselves. Since, when preparing food personally, you invest "your Soul", your energy, therefore, remembering the Ancestors with such food, you exchange energies with them and give them your strength so that the communication channel does not dry out, and so that they have energy, so that you help.
Trebs are placed on the Altar with the following words: "The Heavenly Family, Ancestor! You, the Patron of all the Clans! Remember all my Ancestors! Who are in Your Light Svarga! Now and ever and from Circle to Circle! Taco be, taco be, taco be!"
The altar is arranged in the far left corner of the room from the entrance. (In one of the articles, I read that an altar for remembrance of ancestors (well, or just a place for remembrance) is installed in the southern part of the room, which is very similar to the Indian Vedas, because in their tradition, the South is ruled by Yamaraj - the God of death.)
- Orthodox Church.(note, where I started - in Orthodoxy, parental day is also Saturday !!!)
The Church has established days of solemn, general, ecumenical commemoration. The requiems performed at the same time are called ecumenical, and the days on which the commemoration is performed are called ecumenical parental Saturdays. In the circle of the liturgical year, such days of general commemoration are: meat-fare Saturday; Saturday Trinity; Parental Saturdays of the 2nd, 3rd and 4th weeks of Holy Forty Days; Radunitsa; Dmitrievskaya Saturday; Day of the beheading of John the Baptist; Victory Day in the Great Patriotic war. These days it was supposed to visit the deceased relatives at the cemetery, invite them to a festive feast. They believed that the dead, having received an invitation, came to houses, sat down at the tables, ate and drank together with the living, stood in the church at the festive liturgy.
- Indian Vedas.
There is a huge amount of information about the veneration of ancestors. Pinda, Shraddha... You can find it yourself on the Internet. For me, the most concise, simple and real at home at one time was the information thrown to me by one wonderful girl Lena Gufranova, which I am now sharing with you.
Practice at home.
For the practice you will need: a church candle, a pack of rice, spices, two new plates. You can't eat from these plates. Mark them - one will be for offering food to God, the second - for the Ancestors. Keep them separate for later.
- Get up in the morning, take a bath and put on clean clothes. The kitchen should also be clean.
- Put the rice to boil and while it is cooking, read prayers over it. Rice is not to be tasted. When it is cooked, add ghee, black sesame seeds (you can use poppy seeds, caraway seeds or other black spices), a little salt and sugar. Let the rice cool down.
- Then form the rice into balls the size of Walnut and put them on a clean plate, which must be placed for 15-20 minutes in front of the image of God.
- Offer food to God.
Here are the prayer options:
- Prayer for offering food in the Christian tradition:
"Lord Jesus Christ, our God, bless our food and drink with prayers. Thy Most Pure Mother and all Thy Saints, as blessed be Thou forever. Amen". (And cross the food 3 times).
- Vedic mantra for offering food:
"Namo Om Vishnu padaya
krishna prestaya bhutale
Shrimate bhaktivedanta
Swamin ichi namine
Namaste sarasvati deve
Gaura Vani Pracharine
Nirvisesa-shunyavadi
Pashchatya desha tarine
Nama maha vadanyayya
Krishna prema pradaya te
Krishnaya Krishna Chaitanya
Namne gaura-tvishe namah
Namo brahmanya-devaya
Go-brahmanya-hitaya cha
Jagad-dhitaya krishnaya
Govindaya namo namah."
Wait 15-20 minutes for the Lord to bless your food.
- Then put the rice balls on another new plate to offer to the Ancestors. Put it in another place, light a candle and say: "I invite members of my kind to come and take this food". At the same time, it is advisable for you to stay in the room and just sit and pray in your spiritual tradition for 20-30 minutes.
- Then thank your kind: "I thank you for taking this food. I want to thank you for my life! I am a part of you! I want to show you respect and reverence by asking your blessings and asking for help (say what you are asking for). May these prayers express our gratitude and reverence!" Then bow. Let your appeal to the ancestors express your gratitude and respect!
- Attention! Then, before sunset, you need to feed the fish or black crows with these rice balls. Cooked food should not be eaten by living people, nor should it be thrown away.
This will complete the practice.
Important notes:
- Do your practice with maximum concentration!
- On critical days, the practice cannot be done.
- The practice has great power if it is done by several women of the Family, for example, you are with your mother or with your sister, or with your daughter.
- You can cook a little rice, or you can cook the whole pack. The more you feed the animals, the better.
- Pregnant women can do this practice.
- Please remember you are a woman - a mystical creation of God! In your hands is the opportunity to create a strong strong family, which will be a reliable rear for you, your children and grandchildren!
This is a deep practice, it is advisable to do it several times. Many of our families have inspired us to become who we are today. By positive or negative deeds, our families have created our lives, just as we are creating it now for ourselves and for those who will come after us!
- Catholic traditions.
All Souls' Day is traditionally celebrated in the Roman Catholic Church on November 2, following All Saints' Day (November 1). On this day, in many countries of the world, it is customary to go to the cemetery, light candles, decorate graves with greenery and flowers, and have a common family meal (at home, since eating in cemeteries is strictly prohibited).
- African traditions (the text is given with abbreviations and I have not tested it in practice).
The souls of the dead in African traditions are called differently. There are Various types. Usually, Eguns are considered the Spirit of the Ancestor (regardless - a relative or not, because we may not know who our relatives were in past lives or who we were and where we lived). Eguns are blood and religious relatives.
In this tradition, there is such a thing as the Shrine of the Ancestors (Spiritual Altar, Corner of Eguns).
The procedure for honoring the Ancestors can be represented as four main stages:
- Preparation of the Shrine of the Ancestors.
- Preparing for worship.
- veneration procedure.
- End of the ritual.
Preparing the Ancestral Shrine
First of all, you need to install a table (or other "foundation" of the altar - a shelf, cabinet, etc.). Cover it with a white cloth. He recommends washing it with a little vinegar, then drying it in the sun and lining the altar, sprinkling the fabric with your favorite perfume. Tradition advises to find four stones near the house, clean them with salt, wash them thoroughly and place them in the corners of the altar.
Next, you should place on your altar, or near it (for example, on the wall behind the altar), photographs or portraits of the Ancestors. You can drape the wall behind the altar to make it easier to attach the images. It is generally accepted that you should not have any photographs of living people on your altar.
You can place on the altar the objects of worship of those religions that your Ancestors followed (Holy Scriptures, images of Deities, etc.). Place a white candle on the altar. It is recommended to put a little earth taken near the house and a few grains of salt in a glass candlestick, wipe the white candle clean vegetable oil from the middle to the top, and then, from the middle to the base, and, having strengthened the candle in the candlestick, set it in front of a glass of clean water. Fresh flower petals can be added to the glass.
Honoring the Ancestors requires regularity. It doesn't have to be done every day. You can make a commitment to honor your Ancestors once a week, for example. If you have set the frequency of your rituals, you must strictly adhere to your commitment.
It is necessary to keep your Shrine in perfect cleanliness. Do not let the water that you offer to the Ancestors evaporate. Do not allow spoiled food to be on the altar. Regularly wipe the dust from the images of the Ancestors and other items on the altar.
Note:
Even if you don't have an Ancestral Shrine, you still have the ability to honor the Eguns. By placing a food offering on a plate and dedicating it to the Ancestors, you can be sure that the Ancestors will receive this offering. You can pour some water directly on the ground and this will also be accepted by the Eguns.
Preparation for veneration
Purification of oneself and the Sacred Space.
Purification is a necessary step in preparing for the veneration of the Ancestors. The importance of this stage is due to the fact that impurity, firstly, offends the Spirits, and secondly, it can contribute to the penetration of malevolent Forces.
Identify yourself and pay tribute to the Spirit of the Ancestors: (your name) and (your Ancestors are mentioned, starting from parents, etc.).
Bless the leaves prepared for fumigation, paying homage to their Spirit.
Ask for peace, stability and wisdom.
Give thanks.
Your emotional state should not include negative emotions (anger, hatred, etc.). At any stage of the contact procedure, from fumigation, etc., you should be focused on the activity being carried out and the ultimate goal of your actions.
Thoroughly fumigate the entire area. Make sure that the smoke of smoking gets into every part of the room where the Shrine of the Ancestors is located. Smoke yourself, first from the front (from head to toe) and then from behind (from head to toe).
Take a glass of clean water. Add some of the perfume you use, as well as some of your saliva. Say:
"I pay tribute to the Spirit of the Ancestors."
((your name) and (your Ancestors are mentioned, starting with parents, etc.))
I am (your name) a child of (origin).
Bless the water.
With the help of your left hand, sprinkle the entire room with this water, concentrating on this consecration of the space. Before sprinkling, name the names of those Ancestors with whom contact is undesirable, and the reasons for their exclusion from this ritual. If you do not know the names of all your Ancestors, just mention that you remove from your sacred space the Spirits of all Ancestors who died violent deaths, suicides, criminals, alcoholics, drug addicts, etc., and do not allow them to invade this space.
Before the beginning of the ritual and after its completion, it is recommended to take a bath, or at least sprinkle yourself with water from a large bowl, which should be installed near the altar.
Veneration procedure
- Calling Ancestors.
IN At the beginning of the ceremony, you can ring the bell or shake the maracas. She also advises lighting a candle and, if possible, vanilla or coconut incense.
Various texts can be used to invoke the Spirits of the Ancestors. Perhaps some of your Ancestors would like to hear from Holy Scripture the religion they professed (Bible, Koran, Torah, Vedas).
Here it is appropriate to make a libation of water. The liquid can be sprayed directly from the mouth onto the Shrine of the Ancestors, or a finger can be dipped into the liquid and allowed to drip onto the ground. After the invocation, you should name all your Ancestors known to you (starting from the recently deceased, etc.): (name of the Ancestor), after the name, you can add the life achievements of your Ancestor.
By calling on the Ancestors, you not only invite them to your Shrine, but also honor their memory in this way. After the invocation, you can sing songs in honor of the Ancestors (you can use the texts of the Psalms, verses of the Koran, mantras, etc.). You can dance (without crossing your legs).
Now you can make offerings.
- Offerings to Ancestors.
Offerings to the Ancestors may include any food that you yourself eat. Each time you eat, before you eat yourself, you can offer some of the food to the Ancestors, placing it in a plate (cracked plates are often used) on the floor in front of the altar, or directly on the altar (all food offered to the Ancestors must be without salt!) . He advises to place food in the form of a circle, and put a candle and liquid food in the center. She recommends touching the plate to your forehead, heart, and perineum and breathing on your food.
Offerings also include drinks. When offering drinks, place a few drops on the ground.
Fresh flowers may be used as offerings. When you learn to get in touch with the Souls, your Ancestors themselves will tell you about their desires, which, of course, should not be ignored.
Water, candles, and other non-perishable offerings are usually changed once a week (often on a Friday or Monday evening).
The traditional Egunam offering includes nine small pieces of coconut with palm oil and guinea pepper on each piece placed on a small plate around roasted corn, dried fish and jutia. Pour honey on top.
- Dialogue with the Ancestors.
After making an offering, thank the Ancestors for the blessings you have received. Here, as at any other stage of communication with Souls, you can use either your native language, or the language spoken by the Ancestors.
After calling the Ancestors, ask if any of them have come and if they have a desire to speak. If the answer is yes, find out the name of the Ancestor by listing them in turn. If the Spirit refuses to answer (and in all other cases when you lose control of the ceremony), you must end the session, extinguish the candle and take a bath.
Having found out the name, you can start the dialogue. Ask for blessings first, in your own language.
Ask about the wishes of the Ancestor. He may want you to make some kind of offering (not necessarily food). If it is within your power, satisfy the desires of the Spirit immediately. If this is not possible at the moment, but is realistic in the future, promise the Spirit to fulfill the request in a specific time frame.
After that, you can present your pressing problems to the Spirit and ask him for help in resolving them. Try to ask questions in a way that Spirit can answer "yes" or "no". Keep in mind that not all Ancestors are advanced enough to offer good advice. If Spirit cannot help you, or if his advice is objectively impossible to implement, thank him for his help and try to find advice from another Spirit.
When dealing with Spirits, care must be taken. If your sessions are constantly infiltrated by malevolent Spirits, or if you are experiencing cases of possession, it is better to stop the sessions of invoking Spirits, and start using your altar simply as a place of reflection, meditation.
- Completion of the ritual.
When you have finished sprinkling at the end of the ritual, pay tribute to the wisdom of the Ancestors three times.
Finishing the ceremony of veneration, it is necessary for some time to indulge in reflections on the strength and wisdom of your Ancestors, their life and meaning (you can sort out the rosary at this time), after which, thank them for their wisdom.
After that, extinguish the candle with your fingers or a special device for extinguishing candles. Pour the water from the bowl used for sprinkling away from the house.
Leftover food the next morning can be left at the foot of a large tree. Do not mix leftover offerings with your household waste. Plates, cups, etc. must be cleaned with salt and removed until the next time. You can not use them, like any other items of the altar, for any other purpose, except for the veneration of the Ancestors. Over the next few days, watch your intuition yourself. Ancestors can give you their guidance through them.
- Muslim traditions.
I have been looking for information for a long time. All references are only to the worship of Allah. Then I found an article ... An excerpt from it: "There is no doubt that our ancestors were from among the righteous people. It was they who, having accepted Islam, took upon themselves the heavy burden of calling for this religion in our lands and spreading its light. Many historical facts testify to their piety, courage and greatness. That is why they have numerous rights over us.We are obliged to follow their example in what corresponds to the most pure religion of monotheism and ask forgiveness from Allah for them.They achieved greatness and power only because they strictly followed the canons of this religion, adhering to monotheism and the Sunnah. They were far from polytheism and innovations, as well as everything that, at least in the distant future, could lead to it.
One of the main and biggest reasons leading to polytheism is excessive veneration of ancestors. Moreover, this phenomenon was the main reason for the appearance of the very first polytheism on earth.
One of the imams of the Hanafi madhhab - Shukri al-Alusi (1342 / x) said: " Excess in honoring and exalting any of the creatures is the greatest reason leading to the worship of idols and the righteous. It was the excessive exaltation of the righteous that caused the people to worship Nasr, Sua "u, Yagus and others among the people of the prophet Nuh (Noah). Also, Christians began to worship" Isa (Jesus) precisely for this reason". See "Masail Jahiliya" p.71-72."
But I didn't stop there. Don't they respect it??? I have girlfriends in the Muslim faith, and they gave me the answer: " In the Muslim faith, sadaqah (alms) is served and prayers are given for the souls of the departed."
Therefore, wherever you look, in any tradition, apparently in the subconscious of a person, this ancestral memory still lies ... It's time for us, Ivans, who do not remember kinship, to learn to pay this tribute of veneration, and someday in our hour they will remember us too, and we We will also help our family at a completely different level of consciousness...
I wish peace, prosperity and goodness to your family!!! With love!!!
Your success, personal life and your life scenarios depend on the strength of the family and the relationships within it. If the relationship in the family is weak, difficult, negative, this will also affect your life.
It is especially important to purify the ancestral karma for those in whose family there are suicides, unborn children, including those who have been aborted, and those who have been separated from the family. These members of the genus invisibly influence the life of each next person in the genus.
The heaviest curses go to the youngest member of the family in the female line.
Sometimes we ourselves become the person on whom all this burden falls, or it happens to our daughters. And often we do not understand why there is a constant slippage in life, everything does not turn out the way we wanted, the expected does not bring joy.
On special days of the year, there is an opportunity to purge the family and free it from sins, litigation and suffering. A woman, as a priestess of the clan, can and should do this in order to protect her children and her happiness. The heavy karma of the family will be cleared - and you will gain strength and joy, new thoughts will illuminate your head. Perhaps even the members of the genus themselves will dream of you in good dreams and thank you for it - I have seen this in my practice. In the future, you will gain the protection and support of the family, which gives a feeling of peace and security.
There are many different practices, and I will tell you the one that I often offer to my clients and which I tested on myself - it really works.
The ritual of cleansing the clan and the purification of tribal karma
The essence of the practice: honoring the ancestors by offering them consecrated food. To perform this ritual, you will need: two new plates from which no one has eaten, a church candle and a new pack of rice.
The ritual is best done on the waning moon and on the week of honoring the clan - this Maslenitsa week or period. It is advisable to practice in the morning - the energy at this time is the most blissful.
So, get up in the morning, bathe and put on clean clothes. The kitchen should also be clean.
Put rice to boil. While it is cooking, read prayers over it. Rice is not to be tasted.
When it is cooked, place it on a clean plate, preferably a new one, and place it in front of the image of God. Offer food to God. I will give prayer options for this.
Prayer for the offering of food in the Christian tradition
For the blessing of food and drink for the laity.
Lord Jesus Christ our God, bless our food and drink with prayers.
Your Most Pure Mother and all Your Saints, as if blessed be you forever.
Amen.
(Cross food and drink.)
Vedic mantra for offering food
Namo Om Vishnu padaya
krishna prestaya bhutale
Shrimate bhaktivedanta
Swamin ichi namine
Namaste sarasvati deve
Gaura Vani Pracharine
Nirvisesa-shunvadi
Pashchatya desha tarine
Nama maha vadanyayya
Krishna prema pradaya te
Krishnaya Krishna Chaitanya
Namne gaura-tvishe namah
Namo brahmanya-devaya
Go-brahmanya-hitaya cha
Jagad-dhitaya krishnaya
Govindaya namo namah
Each verse is read three times.
Offering food in the Slavic tradition
Heavenly race, progenitor!
You are the protector of all births!
Remember my ancestors, who are in Your bright Svarga!
Now and ever and from Circle to Circle!
Taco be, taco be, taco be!
Prayer for Muslim women
بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
Bismillahi Rahmani Rahim. In the name of Allah, the Merciful and Merciful."
“The Bismillah contains the names of Allah. Allah directly indicates that everything begins only at the will and by the will of the Almighty. Rahman is His attribute, which indicates that only Allah keeps the matter intact and existing, and Rahim is also His attribute, which, through the grace of Allah, allows a person to benefit from this matter. Therefore, all deeds that begin with the prayer “Bismillahi Rahmani Rahim” will be granted Barakat and the blessing of the Almighty.” ©
Wait 5-10 minutes for the Lord to bless the food.
After that, the consecrated rice must be transferred to another new plate.
Put it in another place, light a candle and say:
I invite members of my kind to come and take this food.
Invitation of ancestors in the Slavic tradition:
« Holy Fathers, we call you! Holy Grandfathers, fly to us!»
At the same time, it is advisable for you to stay in the room and pray for 20-30 minutes.
Then thank your kind:
I thank you for accepting this food. Now you can go. Return to your space and your time.
In the Slavic tradition:
« Holy Grandfathers, you flew here, drank and ate, now fly to your place!»
Make a bow.
ATTENTION!
This food should not be eaten by living people and also should not be thrown away. We must give it to the animals - take it out and put it on the ground.
This completes the ritual.
You can't eat from these bowls. Mark the plate in which food was offered to God, and mark the one in which the ancestors ate. It is better to remove them separately.
After practice, rest - for example, lie down, you can take a nap.
This is a very powerful practice of cleaning ancestral karma, it is advisable to do it several times. You can write to me about changes in life when you do this!
And remember: you are a woman, in your hands is the opportunity to create a strong strong family that will be a reliable rear for you, your children and grandchildren!
Answers to common questions about the practice of offering food to ancestors
Question: Is it possible to offer food and do this practice on critical days?
Answer: No, it's unfavorable. The ritual can be performed on the fourth day from the beginning of menstruation, after taking a full bath.
Question: Is it possible to do this ritual for a spouse?
Answer: Yes it is very good. For the kind of husband, take another plate and change the wording a little: " I invite members of my husband's clan to come and eat».
Question: What to do with leftover rice in a bag?
Answer: This rice can be cooked for households or left for further offering to the ancestors.
